Trish and her profoundly comprehensive therapeutic work are safe harbor from the onslaught of betrayal and its subsequent wasteland of confusion, pain, despair, isolation and reverberating Trauma.

Trish helped me to finally anchor, rebuild and restore. She helped me understand What Happened. After decades of gaslighting, manipulations, and emotional assault, she brought clear light, deep care, and real healing. Trish adeptly uses a multitude of techniques to compassionately confront the complexities of betrayal trauma, while helping release its root adhesions to both psyche and body.

This Intensive has been a crucial piece to my healing process. I was extremely isolated. To be with other women who were also impacted by betrayal trauma, was an incredible gift. The freedom to share without shame, to support one another, and to again experience deep trust, created a bulwark of strength I sorely lacked before the Intensive.

Trish brilliantly and compassionately tends to each individual in the group setting, that also ignites a profound collective healing. My life is profoundly richer for it. If any woman is suffering from betrayal trauma and has the opportunity to attend one of Trish’s Group Intensives, I urgently recommend they take advantage of this extraordinary lifeline opportunity.  Thank you Trish!

Trish’s intensive is very different from the usual format of betrayal trauma workshops. Not only is her content accurate and essential to better understand the impacts of Deceptive Sexuality, Infidelity and Betrayal Trauma, it provides greater access to blocked parts of ourselves and allows us to begin a deeper healing process. The alternation between psychoeducation content and experiences of art therapy, dance, sound baths, somatic exercises, etc., makes this week rich and unique. Furthermore, the term “sister cocoon” could not be better chosen since Trish succeeds in creating a safe space of love, humility, and integrity for these women who are often facing severe traumatic symptoms due to this deep betrayal and the ripple effect of it.

I am always working on my “Plan B” – how will I “B OK either way” – whatever my husband decides or doesn’t decide about recovery? How can I grow and not stagnate? How can I love myself and become who I want to be while I wait to see if his openness and efforts toward recovery prove to be genuine?

Each time I’ve had a “time stands still”, life-changing and gut-wrenching discovery, I’ve doubled down on researching better programs for him. This past discovery it was clear to me, “I’m done trying to do something I have no control over”. I looked for a trauma intensive for me and found Trish’s “Here I Am Becoming” trauma retreat. I am also worth my time and worth my money – and I made the healing time work for me and will never regret it. Managing life while loving an addict makes me feel like I must be super-human while giving him grace to be uber-human. I found a space with Trish and the women where I could be human; free from educating others about my experience and free to let my body release the pain of carrying too much that is too big for me to carry alone.

The pristine and relaxing environment, the small group of lovely women, the curriculum plus the right-brained art and writing exercises were all so helpful in processing deeper pain and letting it out of my body, in a safe space. The sound bath, drumming, dancing and being with others who understand my brand of pain produced a joy and lightness that surprisingly blooms in the dark in the right circumstances – Trish creates the right circumstances, and I will draw from what I learned and experienced there for my lifetime. It was an added extra to be in a sunny place and to have alone time in the evenings to rest and do whatever I needed for myself. I will end by saying: you are worth your time. You are worth your money. Love yourself first, and if this experience looks helpful and healing for you, make it work.

Participating in the 8-day Sacred Sister Cocoon intensive with Trish Haight was a transformative experience that exceeded all my expectations. From the moment I arrived, I was enveloped in a nurturing environment that felt both safe and empowering. Trish’s compassionate guidance and the supportive community of women allowed me to delve deep into my healing journey. Through a blend of therapeutic practices, creative expression, and shared stories, I was able to confront and process my betrayal trauma in ways I never thought possible. The bonds formed during this retreat continue to uplift me, and I carry forward the tools and insights gained with renewed strength and hope. The lengths that Trish went to ensure my extensive dietary restrictions were accommodated each and every day was above and beyond anything I could have imagined. Her ability to make each participant feel seen and heard is a true gift. I wholeheartedly recommend this intensive to anyone seeking profound healing, connection, and a restored sense of self!

I have often heard the advice “a burden shared is halved.” I actually felt that after being introduced to the safety and compassion of Trish’s group intensive. She set that tone. The sacredness of each of our experiences found that common, golden thread amongst us, teaching “you are never alone” in the grief and upheaval, or in the laughter and calm, that starts the healing. As our trusted guide, Trish was well-informed, well-scheduled and well-respected. Well done!