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A Rewritten Serenity Prayer for the Evolution of Time

Trish Haight

Licensed Psychotherapist


Trish Haight, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Therapist (DSTT). Trish is a leading professional voice in Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment (DSTT) and was a Faculty Member of The Institute for Sexual Health (ISH), where she taught Level 2 and 3 of the DSTT Professional Training along with Dr. Omar Minwalla, Licensed Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist.

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The Serenity Prayer is a timeless source of wisdom and comfort for those experiencing suffering and navigating challenges in life. However, as our understanding of trauma, resilience, and the human experience shifts and moves, it is valuable to revisit and reimagine these words in a way that resonates with our ever-changing lives.

My Rewritten Serenity Prayer

How This Unfolded

I was providing an 8-day in-person intensive for female-identified partners who have been deeply hurt by deceptive sexuality, infidelity, and betrayal.  On the 3rd day, before everyone arrived, I did a short drop-in meditation.  I wanted to prepare myself to be fully present.  My intention was to strengthen my capacity, so I could hold all of them, and the depth of what they were about to tap into throughout the day.

And then, the serenity prayer began to move inside of me. The hum of it was profound, it was creating an unwinding of sorts, and then it unfolded.  The words like pearls strung together, of luminescent white and with qualities ascribed to them such as purity, sincerity, and new beginnings. And when that experience settled in me, and I was coming up from the drop-in meditation, I rewrote the serenity prayer personally for me, for them, and for all others who are suffering. 

Why This Version

I deeply appreciate the powerful simplicity of the original serenity prayer; it is sacred rhythm of words that has a heartbeat of healing. However, my rewritten prayer delves deeper into the nuances of self compassion, courage, and the ongoing process of becoming. It emphasizes the importance of:

  • Inner Wisdom: Trusting your gut and inner knowing.
  • Authenticity: Facing your reality with courage and honesty.
  • Self-Acceptance: Embracing your evolving self and your journey.
  • Resilience: Letting go of old stories and embracing new beginnings.

How This Connects to My Approach to Therapy

My therapeutic approach aligns with the principles of this rewritten prayer. I provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your inner landscape, cultivate self-compassion, and tap into your innate resilience. Whether you are struggling with trauma, relationship issues, or life transitions, I can help you move through your suffering, navigate your challenges, and create a life of new meaning and purpose.

Ready to Begin Your Journey

If you are ready to embark on a path of healing and self-exploration, I invite you to reach out. Together, we can explore how my approach can support you in accepting what you cannot change, finding the courage to change what you can, and embracing the ongoing process of becoming your most exquisite true self.

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Remember: You are not alone on this journey. With compassion, courage, and the right support, you can create a life that is truly your own.

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Trish Haight

Licensed Psychotherapist


Trish Haight, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Therapist (DSTT). Trish is a leading professional voice in Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment (DSTT) and was a Faculty Member of The Institute for Sexual Health (ISH), where she taught Level 2 and 3 of the DSTT Professional Training along with Dr. Omar Minwalla, Licensed Psychologist. Trish formally trained directly under Dr. Omar Minwalla and since 2009, Trish has worked collaboratively with Dr. Minwalla in treatment processes such as group and customized intensives, workshops, and conjoint therapy. Trish was an instrumental part of Dr. Minwalla’s original core clinical treatment team at The Institute for Sexual Health from 2009 – 2015, which is referred to as Dr. Minwalla’s, Sacred Clinical Incubator, giving birth to both DSTT and IVTT, Intentional Vibe Trauma Treatment. IVTT is a treatment for systemic abuse, injustice, and complex trauma, and relevant in particular to survivor-based communities.